Major Donor Meeting Prep Notes
Briefing doc for ED/Board before donor meeting
The Prompt
The Prompt
You are creating Major Donor Meeting Prep Notes for a nonprofit development team. This is a confidential, 1-page briefing to prep staff, board, or the Executive Director for a donor meeting.
Estimated prep time: 15–20 minutes
How to use
1) Fill the Intake Form below.
2) Paste any CRM notes/research under “Background Block.”
3) Select a Tone.
4) Submit; if data is missing, produce notes and mark gaps as [TO VERIFY].
Intake Form (copy/paste and complete)
- Organization: [ORGANIZATION NAME]
- Donor: [DONOR NAME]
- Meeting date/time/location: [DATE / TIME / LOCATION]
- Meeting length: [15 / 30 / 45 / 60 min]
- Meeting type: [CULTIVATION / SOLICITATION / STEWARDSHIP / SITE VISIT / FIRST-TIME]
- Attendees (names/titles) + roles: [Lead Asker] [Timekeeper] [Note-taker]
- Authority to commit (decision rights): [WHO can say yes to what]
- Primary goal (specific): [OUTCOME]
- If solicitation: Ask amount/range [$], purpose [PROGRAM/PROJECT], timing [WHEN], who asks [NAME], pause plan [min. 5–10 seconds]
- Tone: [FORMAL / WARM / CASUAL]
- Attachments (list + links or “summary 1–2 bullets + link”): [FILENAME + URL]
- Background Block (paste CRM notes/research): [TEXT]
- Sensitivities/red flags: [NOTES]
- Recognition preferences: [NOTES]
Output requirements
- 250–350 words, bullets only, no long paragraphs
- Concrete, donor-centric, plain language; no jargon/clichés
- Mark unknowns as [TO VERIFY]; do not invent facts
- Fit to 1 page; optimize for skimming by a busy ED in under 3 minutes
Prioritization by meeting length
- 15 min: Include Header; Objective & Strategy (with Ask if applicable); 3 Talking Points; 4 Questions; Post-Meeting Plan. Condense Snapshot to 1–2 bullets. Omit Logistics unless critical.
- 30–60 min: Include all required sections; add Relationship History, Likely Concerns, What Not to Say, and brief Logistics with agenda.
Create the 1-page briefing with these sections (omit optional items if needed to meet word limit)
1) Header (always)
- Date/time/location; attendees + roles; authority to commit; primary desired outcome
2) Donor Snapshot (3–4 bullets; 1–2 bullets if 15 min)
- Background/connection; last gift/lifetime total; capacity indicators + vehicles (DAF/stock/cash); motivations aligned to mission/program
3) Relationship History (2–3 bullets; skip for first-time)
- Recent touchpoints; who knows them; invites/stewardship; sensitivities
4) Meeting Objective & Strategy (always)
- Primary goal; 1–2 acceptable fallbacks (e.g., site visit, spouse/advisor intro, multi-year exploration)
- If solicitation: The Ask (exact amount, purpose, timing, who asks, exact phrasing, pause plan)
5) Tailored Talking Points (3–5 bullets)
- Beneficiary-centered impact tied to program/project; include 1–2 proof points (metric/story)
6) Questions to Ask (4–6 open-ended)
- Interests, timing, decision process, asset preference (DAF/stock), recognition, who else to involve
7) Likely Concerns + Responses (3–4 pairs; include if applicable)
- Short, respectful replies that bridge back to impact
8) What NOT to Say (3–5 bullets; optional but recommended)
- Confidential issues, crisis framing, politics, overpromising, jargon
9) Logistics & Choreography (brief; include agenda for 30–60 min)
- 20–45 min agenda; materials to bring; follow-up artifacts; accessibility note (print at 12–14 pt, high contrast if sharing)
10) Post-Meeting Plan (always)
- Thank-you plan (owner, within 48 hours); next steps with owners/due dates; CRM updates (contact report, next step, stage)
Footer
- Prepared by [STAFF NAME/TITLE] on [DATE] — Version [X] (Updated [DATE])
Conditional guidance
- First-time: Skip Relationship History; add “Research Summary” bullet (public sources); focus Questions on discovery
- Cultivation (no ask): Emphasize Questions/next engagement; skip Ask
- Stewardship: Add “Impact Update” bullets tied to donor’s last gift; lead with gratitude
Example snippets (for reference—adapt and keep concise)
- Donor Snapshot: “Sarah Chen, VP at Series C fintech; introduced by board member Tom (2022). Giving: $5K (2022), $10K (2023) to scholarships; lifetime $15K. Capacity: Presidio Heights homeowner; serves on 2 nonprofit boards. Motivation: Equity in youth sports; former scholarship athlete.”
- Talking Point: “Your 2023 gift funded 47 GED completions; Maria, a single mom, now enrolled in community college.”How to Customize
- Replace all [BRACKETED] fields with your specific information
- Adjust tone and length as needed for your audience
- Review and personalize before using
Pro Tips
- Test this prompt with your preferred AI tool before using in production
- Always review AI output for accuracy and appropriateness
- Customize outputs to match your organization’s voice and brand
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Example Outputs
Compare scenarios: We tested this prompt with 3 different nonprofit contexts. Each scenario shows outputs from GPT-5, Claude, and Gemini. Select a model above each scenario to compare.
Small Community Org
Small, neighborhood-based hunger relief nonprofit in urban Chicago running a mobile pantry and community fridge network; reliant on local businesses and individual donors.
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1) Header - Tue Nov 18, 2025 | 10:30–11:00 AM CT | Alvarez Markets HQ, 1440 W 47th St, Chicago (3rd-floor conference room) - Attendees: Jasmine Lee (ED – lead asker), A. Patel (Dev Mgr – details/next steps), Carla Ruiz (Board – peer/mission voice) - Authority: Miguel can approve up to $20,000 today; >$20,000 requires co-owner Lucia. ED can commit benefits/logo/route naming up to $25,000. - Primary outcome: Verbal yes to $15,000 2025 Mobile Pantry Route sponsorship + agreement on recognition and payment timeline.
2) Donor Snapshot - Owner, Alvarez Markets; introduced via Pastor Ernesto Vega (St. Bridget’s). - Giving: ~$12k in-kind produce (weekly) + $5,000 cash (Dec 2024). - Capacity/vehicle: Corporate sponsorship possible; fast decision up to $20k. - Motivations: Practical, visible impact; low-frills recognition (truck logo, community posts).
3) Relationship History - Regular Saturday site visits with nephew; values transparency after last summer’s truck downtime. - Positive response to simple, store-based events; no galas or speeches.
4) Meeting Objective & Strategy - Goal: $15,000 sponsorship for 2025 Mobile Pantry Route (fuel, driver hours, refrigeration maintenance). - Fallbacks: If not today, secure commitment by 11/30; schedule store parking-lot ribbon cutting; intro to co-owner Lucia; consider 2-year pledge discussion. - The Ask (Jasmine): “Miguel, will Alvarez Markets sponsor our 2025 Mobile Pantry Route at $15,000 so we can keep the truck fueled, staffed, and refrigerated for your neighbors next year? We’ll place your logo on the truck and share community posts. Can we count on you today?” [Pause 8 seconds.]
5) Tailored Talking Points - Your produce + cash gifts kept our shelves fresh and flexible this year—thank you. - Route sponsorship = more steady Saturday stops and cold-chain reliability. - Recognition: Truck logo placement + 3 community posts; optional store parking-lot ribbon cutting (no speeches). - Reliability plan: Preventive maintenance schedule, refrigeration service cadence, and downtime contingency vendor.
6) Questions to Ask - How does this sponsorship fit your 2025 community priorities? - Does co-owner Lucia need to co-sign for a $15k sponsorship; preferred payment source (corporate marketing vs. personal gift); accounting contact for invoicing and W-9; any conflicts with holiday promo calendar; dietary restrictions for future ribbon-cutting. - What recognition feels most useful for your stores and customers? - Would a Saturday morning ribbon cutting at your 47th St lot work in January?
7) Likely Concerns + Responses - Downtime worry: We’ve added scheduled maintenance and a refrigeration service plan; sponsorship helps keep that reliable. - Visibility: Truck logo + posts drive community goodwill at your locations; no gala or speeches needed. - Timing/cash flow: We can invoice now for payment by 12/31 or split if helpful; benefits begin upon pledge.
8) What NOT to Say - Political framing; gala invitations; guarantees of “zero downtime;” jargon; anything implying marketing ROI guarantees.
9) Logistics & Choreography (30 min) - Agenda: 5 min thanks/impact; 10 min route plan + reliability; 5 min recognition; 5 min Ask (pause); 5 min next steps. - Bring: Sponsorship Menu 2025; Route Map; logo mockup on truck; simple one-page pledge; W-9/invoice template. Print 12–14 pt, high contrast.
10) Post-Meeting Plan - Thank-you email same day (Jasmine); pledge form + benefits summary within 24 hours (A. Patel). - If yes: confirm logo file, invoicing contact, ribbon-cutting date; update CRM with commitment and tasks. - If pending: schedule decision check-in by 11/25; log contact report and next step in CRM.
Prepared by A. Patel, Development Manager on 2025-11-02 — Version 1.0 (Updated 2025-11-02)
AI Evaluation Details (Score: 8.8/10)
This is a highly functional, well-structured briefing document that demonstrates strong understanding of nonprofit major donor cultivation. It successfully balances comprehensiveness with brevity, provides actionable guidance, and incorporates donor-specific intelligence effectively. The output would be immediately usable by a development team with minimal editing.
- • Excellent donor-centric customization: The briefing reflects Miguel's preferences (practical impact, low-frills recognition, Saturday visits, truck downtime concerns) throughout all sections, not just in the snapshot
- • Strong solicitation choreography: The scripted ask is clear, specific, and includes the exact 8-second pause; fallback options are realistic and sequenced appropriately
- • Smart use of [TO VERIFY] markers: Questions section appropriately flags unknowns (Lucia co-sign, payment source, accounting contact) without inventing facts
- • Practical 'What NOT to Say' section: Includes specific, contextual guidance (no gala invitations, no political framing, no ROI guarantees) that reflects the donor's profile
- • Actionable post-meeting plan: Clear ownership, realistic timelines, and specific CRM update requirements that would actually drive follow-through
- • Appropriate word count and formatting: Stays within 250-350 word range, uses bullets effectively, and would genuinely fit on one page at 12-14pt font
- • Relationship history integration: Connects past concerns (truck downtime) to current talking points (reliability plan), showing institutional memory
- • Recognition strategy alignment: Parking-lot ribbon cutting suggestion directly reflects donor's stated preferences and avoids his dislikes
- • Minor role description inconsistency: Carla Ruiz is listed as 'Board Secretary' in intake but described as 'peer/mission voice' in attendees—could be clearer about her specific function in this meeting
- • Questions section formatting: The second bullet is a direct paste of the [TO VERIFY] text rather than being reformulated as natural open-ended questions a staff member would actually ask in conversation
- • Slight repetition: 'Truck logo' and 'community posts' appear in both Talking Points (#5) and Likely Concerns (#7) with nearly identical phrasing—could be streamlined
- • Missing metric in talking points: While the reliability plan is mentioned, no specific proof point about current route frequency or households served is included to quantify the sponsorship impact
Mid-Size Regional Health Org
Mid-sized mobile health nonprofit serving rural Kansas counties with preventative care and screenings; funded by family foundations, DAFs, and regional businesses.
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1) Header - When/where: Fri Nov 21, 2025, 2:00–2:45 PM CT; Site visit at Dickinson County Fairgrounds (Gate B), Abilene, KS - Attendees (PHMC): Ben Carter (host), Sierra Long, Emma Reeves - Donor: Hannah and Mark Whitaker, Whitaker Family Fund (Fidelity Charitable); meeting type: SITE VISIT; no formal ask - Authority: Whitakers co-advise Fidelity Charitable DAF; can recommend grants up to $250k; prefer single-year recommendations even for multi-year intent; board approval needed for equipment naming - Primary outcome: Permission to submit a 3-page concept note and schedule a follow-up Zoom within 10 days re: $100,000 two-year proposal
2) Donor Snapshot - Live outside Salina; own Whitaker Ag Supply; busy in planting/harvest seasons - Last gift: $25,000 (2024 via Fidelity Charitable) for hypertension screenings in Ottawa & Dickinson; prefer quiet recognition (“Whitaker Family Fund” or anonymous) - Motivations: Rural access, faster response times; Mark’s father was an EMT; values evidence of avoided ER visits - Preferences: Low admin overhead (<15%); concise quarterly updates with photos (no patient faces). Hannah is allergic to dogs
3) Relationship History - 2024 gift stewarded with quarterly updates; visited our Ottawa County pop-up in 2024 (photos sent) - Communication has been concise email with PDFs; good engagement, on time responses - Sensitivities: Avoid partisan/hospital system politics; no pressure to commit on-site
4) Meeting Objective & Strategy - Goal: Ok to send 3-page concept note + book Zoom within 10 days - Fallbacks: Confirm priority geographies/services; align on reporting cadence and recognition; set tentative window for 2025 DAF recommendation
5) Tailored Talking Points - Show the mobile clinic in action; how screenings and follow-up prevent ER use - Cost-per-patient and percent to overhead; how dollars translate to visits and follow-ups - Tie to 2024-funded hypertension work in Ottawa/Dickinson; what’s next if scaled - Safety/response-time benefits in farm/ranch contexts; alignment with EMT family story - Bring two proof points from “2024 Outcomes & County Map” and one anonymized patient vignette (no faces)
6) Questions to Ask - For 2025: What is your DAF grant cycle and decision timeline? - Would you consider a two-year commitment if we recommend annually? - Preference: equipment (second unit) vs. operations for staffing/services? - Indirect cost expectations (target <15%)—what’s acceptable? - Recognition: list as Whitaker Family Fund or anonymous; any interest in limited naming? - Should your daughter Abby (grants) join the follow-up Zoom?
7) Likely Concerns + Responses - Overhead: We keep admin lean; can cap indirects per your threshold and show breakout - Impact proof: We’ll share avoided ER visit estimates and follow-up adherence from 2024 Outcomes - Reporting burden: Quarterly, concise 1-page updates with photos (no faces) + annual summary - Recognition: Quiet listing only; no public naming unless requested
8) What NOT to Say - Hospital politics or critiques; any partisan framing - Vague “transformational” claims; overpromising ER diversion counts - On-the-spot ask or pressure; surprise recognition ideas - Anything involving therapy dogs (Hannah allergy)
9) Logistics & Choreography - Agenda (45 min): 5 greet/ground rules; 15 tour inside/outside; 10 outcomes/costs; 10 Q&A/preferences; 5 next steps - Bring: One-Page Overview; 2024 Outcomes & County Map; Draft Budget: Second Mobile Unit; sample quarterly report; printed at 12–14 pt, high contrast - Prep: Park by Gate B; ensure therapy dog off-site; photos without faces only
10) Post-Meeting Plan - Thank-you email within 24–48 hrs (Ben); propose dates for Zoom; attach 3-page concept note draft if invited - Owners: Ben—concept note + scheduling; Sierra—data/metrics; Emma—CRM contact report same day - CRM: Log notes, update stage to “Cultivation—Site Visit,” add next task/deadline
Prepared by Ben Carter, Development Director on 2025-11-02 — Version 1.2 (Updated 2025-11-02)
AI Evaluation Details (Score: 8.8/10)
This is an exceptionally practical briefing document that a development director could use immediately. It successfully balances comprehensiveness with scannability, includes all critical donor-specific details (including the dog allergy—crucial!), and maintains a warm, professional tone throughout. Minor deductions for not explicitly flagging all [TO VERIFY] items from the intake form and slight redundancy in a few sections.
- • Excellent donor-centric detail integration: Hannah's dog allergy, Mark's EMT father backstory, and Whitaker Ag Supply seasonal constraints are woven naturally into actionable guidance
- • Smart strategic framing: Positions the 'no formal ask' site visit correctly while clearly preparing for the concept note invitation—avoids pressure while maintaining momentum
- • Highly scannable format: Bullet structure, bolded section headers, and concise language allow the ED to absorb key points in under 3 minutes as specified
- • Practical 'What NOT to Say' section: Specific, contextual warnings (therapy dogs, hospital politics, on-the-spot asks) that prevent real mistakes
- • Strong Questions to Ask section: Open-ended, discovery-focused questions that directly address the [TO VERIFY] items (DAF cycle, multi-year, equipment vs. operations, Abby's involvement)
- • Realistic logistics: 45-minute agenda breakdown is credible and actionable; material list with accessibility note (12-14 pt, high contrast) shows attention to detail
- • Appropriate authority mapping: Clearly states what Whitakers can approve ($250k DAF recommendations, single-year preference) vs. what needs board approval (equipment naming)
- • Does not explicitly mark [TO VERIFY] items in the output itself—the six verification points from intake (DAF grant cycle, multi-year openness, etc.) are converted to questions but not flagged as unconfirmed assumptions
- • Minor redundancy: 'Prefer quiet recognition' appears in both Donor Snapshot (#2) and Likely Concerns (#7); could consolidate to save word count
- • Talking Points section could be tighter: 'Bring two proof points from 2024 Outcomes' is a bit vague—would benefit from one concrete example metric if available in the linked documents
- • Version number inconsistency: Footer shows 'Version 1.2 (Updated 2025-11-02)' but prep date is also 2025-11-02, suggesting this is actually version 1.0 unless there were same-day revisions
Large National Arts Org
Large, established national nonprofit advancing arts education with tech-integrated programs across major U.S. districts; sophisticated dev team and national board.
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1) Header - Thu Dec 5, 2025, 9:00–10:00 AM PT; Nimbus Cloud Campus, 2000 Sand Hill Rd, Palo Alto — Building C, 5th Floor Boardroom - Attendees: Priya Shah (donor); NAEA: Elena Morales (ED—leads ask), Jordan Hale (Chief of Staff), Rina Sato (Dev Ops) - Authority: Priya can commit up to $1M via Shah Family Foundation; >$500k requires spouse Arjun co-sign. ED may commit to scope/reporting/recognition within board policy; naming >$1M needs board approval. - Primary outcome: Secure $500,000 over two years for Creative Code Labs expansion to Boston, Detroit, Phoenix, with agreed reporting and recognition plan.
2) Donor Snapshot - SVP Product, Nimbus Cloud; co-founded Shah Family Foundation; first-gen college grad; equity + measurable gains motivate. - Connection: Funded $250,000 Oakland pilot (2024); volunteer judge at spring hackathon. Lifetime to NAEA: $250,000. - Vehicles: Uses private foundation + DAF; has given appreciated stock to others; advisor: Kiran Desai (counsel). - Prefers concise dashboards, student stories with privacy safeguards; recognition: cohort/lab naming; low-profile.
3) Relationship History - 2024–25: Regular pilot updates; evaluation summary shared (AIR). Positive experience judging hackathon. - Known sensitivities: Nimbus layoffs—avoid corporate tie-ins; no overpromising beyond three-city scope; NYC DOE pending—avoid specifics.
4) Meeting Objective & Strategy - Goal: $500,000 (2 years; $250k/year) for teacher training, student stipends, equipment, evaluation; pledge by 12/15; payments by 1/31/26 and 1/31/27. - Fallbacks: Intro to Arjun and/or Kiran; confirm asset/timing; schedule Detroit site visit; agreement on reporting cadence. - The Ask (Elena): “Priya, would you consider a $500,000 two-year commitment—$250,000 per year—to expand Creative Code Labs to Boston, Detroit, and Phoenix, with simple quarterly dashboards and student stories?” Then pause 10 seconds.
5) Tailored Talking Points - Your 2024 pilot gift enabled Oakland students to build and demo projects—Priya saw outcomes firsthand at the hackathon. - Expansion plan is focused: three cities; teacher PD, student stipends, devices; third-party evaluation by AIR (summary linked). - Data + privacy: dashboards with de-identified student stories; first names only; consent protocol in place. - Sustainability: district cost-share and diversified funding roadmap; your gift anchors Year 1–2.
6) Questions to Ask - What would success look like to you two years from now? - How do you prefer to structure the gift and reporting cadence? - Would you like Arjun and/or Kiran looped in now or post-draft agreement? - Recognition: cohort or lab naming in one city—what’s your preference? - Unknowns/gaps: Whether spouse/co-trustee Arjun must co-sign at $500k; preferred asset (DAF vs private foundation vs appreciated stock); desire for multi-year agreement letter vs annual letters; preferred evaluation partner; availability for Detroit site visit in Q1 2026.
7) Likely Concerns + Responses - Concern: Evidence of learning gains. Response: Independent evaluator (AIR) engaged; we’ll share concise dashboards each quarter and a year-end brief. - Concern: Scale creep. Response: Commitment is limited to Boston/Detroit/Phoenix; we will not expand beyond scope without new funding. - Concern: Student privacy. Response: De-identified data, first names only, opt-in media consent. - Concern: Admin burden. Response: Streamlined one-page quarterly dashboard; annual call to interpret results.
8) What NOT to Say - No Nimbus corporate tie-ins or employee programs. - No promises about NYC DOE or future national rollout. - No gala spotlight offers; avoid public student identifiers. - Avoid jargon or complex evaluation acronyms.
9) Logistics & Choreography - Agenda (60 min): 1) Gratitude + Oakland reflection (5); 2) Impact/eval highlights (10); 3) Expansion plan/budget (10); 4) The Ask + pause (5); 5) Discussion/Q&A (20); 6) Next steps/recognition/reporting (10). - Bring: 1-page budget summary; evaluation summary (AIR); sample dashboard; recognition options; gift instruction sheet (DAF/stock/foundation). - Follow-up artifacts: Draft grant letter; sample dashboard; site visit dates.
10) Post-Meeting Plan - Thank-you email within 24–48 hrs (Elena), cc Jordan; include recap and attachments. - If yes: Send draft agreement and gift instructions same day (Rina); propose site visit dates; ask about press release language. - If needs review: Schedule call with Arjun/Kiran; provide any requested materials. - CRM: Contact report and next step by EOD next business day (Rina); stage updated.
Prepared by M. Nguyen, Senior Manager, Prospect Strategy on 2025-11-02 — Version 2.3 (Updated 2025-11-02)
AI Evaluation Details (Score: 9/10)
This is an exceptionally strong briefing document that demonstrates sophisticated understanding of major gift fundraising. It balances comprehensiveness with scanability, includes all critical elements for a high-stakes solicitation, and appropriately flags sensitivities. The formal tone is well-calibrated for a $500K ask, and the tactical details (pause timing, fallback options, choreography) show real-world fundraising expertise.
- • Excellent tactical specificity: exact ask language, 10-second pause instruction, clear fallback positions, and detailed choreography make this immediately actionable
- • Smart integration of sensitivities throughout: Nimbus layoffs and NYC DOE warnings appear in multiple relevant sections without being repetitive
- • Outstanding 'Questions to Ask' section that embeds [TO VERIFY] items naturally as discovery questions rather than gaps—this is sophisticated practice
- • Donor-centric framing: talking points reference Priya's direct experience ('saw outcomes firsthand at hackathon'), and recognition options align with stated preferences
- • Realistic post-meeting plan with clear owners, timelines, and conditional logic (if yes/if needs review)
- • Proper use of [TO VERIFY] markers in section 6 without inventing facts, maintaining credibility
- • Word count discipline: 349 words, within the 250-350 target, demonstrating strong editing
- • Accessibility consideration in logistics (though could be more explicit about 12-14pt print)
- • Minor authenticity issue: some phrasing feels slightly templated ('de-identified data, first names only, opt-in media consent' is a bit robotic—could be more conversational even in formal tone)
- • The 60-minute agenda totals only 60 minutes with no buffer; real meetings benefit from 5-10 min flex time
- • Section 2 could strengthen capacity indicators beyond homeownership equivalent (e.g., 'SVP-level comp at unicorn' signals wealth more clearly than foundation co-founder alone)
- • Footer shows version 2.3 updated same day as creation (11-02), which is slightly confusing—version number suggests iteration but date doesn't reflect it
Test Summary: Generated Nov 2, 2025 • 3 scenarios • 9 total outputs • Average quality score: 8.83/10 • Total validation cost: $0.2375